In the face of tragedies, especially those that touch us, we oscillate between explaining and cry.
Explain almost always to blame.
Crying is for those who feel the pain of others, even that far, as his. Not all cry. Only those who are not sufficient in themselves.
After the tears that will silence.
Do not silence of indifference, but of those that care.
It is the silence of those who are busy doing what they can to collect the tears, feed, clothe or raise or those who suffer.
It is the silence of those who have the courage to remain silent than not to explain.